A Couple's Heartbreak

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

            The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, and unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

* Love is living your own life, and sharing it. It’s forgiveness. It’s making a million mistakes and turning them into learning experiences. Love is patience, optimism, and sometimes it’s a kiss when there is nothing left to say.”

See ya!!

Falling In Love

I fell in love with you
and then you broke my heart,
I knew never to love a player,
I was wrong from the start...
Loving you was like ripping out my heart.
I refused to look around me and see
all the terrible things you were doing to me,
I was in my own world and I didn't see all the trouble you were,

I was deeply in love.
Now that's all ruined, you see,
All because you played me,
You had looks, you had charm,
You were slick with your words,
You knew just what to say.
I was foolish to think
we were made for each other,

I always prayed you
would never love another,
I wanted us to always be with each other.
Loving a player is one of the
hardest things ever,
I have learned a lot
from my experiences with you,
My heart was broken into two.
I know now, as I look back on my past,
Dating a player will never last,
So, in my future I'll watch what I do,
I won't date anymore players,
But I'll still always love you.

- Lindsey Nicole Milke -

*** Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give you a baby. Give her a house, she will give you a home. Give her groceries, she will give you a meal. Give her a smile, she will give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if you give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of s**t!

So.. beware guys...!

See Yaa!!

My friend's Story

-Un Related-

I have a friend…. Great one… kinda cool… charming… and sweet… haha…

I know him since 2007…. But we only get a chance to know each other this year…

It’s good to have a friend like him….

*wink*

But the problem is…. as day passed…. I began to adore him….

I always waiting for him to show up in Facebook chatting… even if it means I have to stay up late and wake up early…

What’s wrong with me??

Today… finally… I decided to unfriend him on Facebook…

Because I don’t want him to think me as a freak!

I can’t be natural with him… I always trying to do something strange and stupid so that he is not bored…. I am overreacted am I?

 Arghhh… whatever!!

-prevention is better than cure-

Means… before he began to think I’m freak…. I have to stay away from him…

*This is my friend’s story…. Hehe….

‘You’…. You know the truth!

Ok… I need a break…

See ya!

** This is just a story..... Nothing to do with anyone **

Just Tell Her

Boy: I need someone to talk to.

Girl: I'm always here for you.

Boy: I know.

Girl: What's wrong?

Boy: I like her so much.

Girl: Talk to her.

Boy: I don't know. She won't ever like me.

Girl: Don't say that...you're amazing.

Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.

Girl: Then tell her.

Boy: She won't like me.

Girl: How do you know that?

Boy: I can just tell her...

Girl: Well just tell her.

Boy: What should I say?

Girl: Tell her how much you like her.

Boy: I tell her daily.

Girl: What do you mean?

Boy: I'm always with her...I love her.

Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem...but he'll never like me.

Boy: Wait. Who do you like?

Girl: Oh, some boy.

Boy: Oh, she won't like me either.

Girl: She does.

Boy: How do you know?

Girl: Because who wouldn't like you?

Boy: You.

Girl: You're wrong. I love you.

Boy: I love you too.

Girl: So are you going to talk to her?

Boy: I just did.

[You…. Hmmm…. Do You Love Me??]

 Love is Awesome!!

See ya~~♥

Mixed Marriage

Holla…. It’s good to be back… I mean blogging… *wink*

before that, I would like to apologize to you all cuz my English is not that good… my grammar also… so, just ignore any grammatical errors in this blog ok…

Alright…. To all of you who interested in mixed marriage… Let’s see what is mixed marriage all about…

The term mixed marriage could easily be used to describe a marriage between two people of difference races.

Mixed marriage with races is fine but if it’s related with Religion then it will be really tough. If you believe strongly in your religion and your spouse theirs, it could cause conflict, and hurt feelings, depends on the people. It's already difficult enough getting along in a couple where you both come from the same culture without having the extra difficulties of different cultures. You have to make so many more concessions in a mixed marriage. Imagine if your husband insisted on you wearing a headscarf and imposed his religion on you? Maybe love is not enough to make this kind of relationship last, you would have to take a lot of time talking and trying to overcome inevitable misunderstandings. It would be necessary to find a common goal.

As life is so demanding, the extra investment in terms of time and energy may be too much. Perhaps if you don't have too strong a character and are open-minded enough to accept the customs and values of your partner without necessarily giving up your own, it could work as long as the cultures are not too different.

However in these days, many mixed marriages begin in our society and don't take into account different religions, race and culture. In my perspective, mixed marriages will be a most happiness marriages in the world. The most interesting fact on advantage of mixed marriage is that mixed nationality children are often gorgeous looking.

A mixed marriage also could bring an element of variety and surprise which you don't have in a traditional marriage. It could be enriching and not so likely to fall into a routine.

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-See ya-

Yang Sempurnakan ku - sixth sense

 

Yang sempurnakanku-sixth sense

Kaulah bidadari dalam hidupku
Yang selalu hadir di dalam mimpiku
Bunga yang selalu harungi hariku
Anugerah Tuhan yang sempurnakanku

Bila kau jauh
Aku selalu rindu
Bila kau ada
Hatikan berbunga

Ku akan selalu menjadi bintangmu
Menerangi gelap dan mimpimu
Aku setia di sini mengusap tangismu
Menemani sunyi di hatimu

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The Break Up

Thank you for everything my dear...

Your Love for me...

Your time wasted for me...

Your Money....

Thank you... I appreciate all that...

5 years ago.... I tried my best to ‘trap’ you inside my tiny heart...

But now, I tried my best to let you go... to forget you and everything about you...

For a very last time... I want you to know that,

I’m always in love with you

Every time I’m throwing my anger to you.... It’s the time I miss you so much....

  I really don’t like when you keep in contact with your Ex...

  Knowing you is the best memory in my life

♥

Guys Matters...

The things he don’t Like

·       Talking about his Ex....For him..... His Ex is in the pass and you is his future. So no need to talk about his Ex because he is trying to gave full love and attention to you. If you keep talking about his Ex... How will he forget her??

 

·       Talking about other guys.... He doesn’t want you to feel like other guys are better than him. He wants to be the best in your eyes.

·       Criticize his mother.... His mother is the perfect girl in his life... so don’t talk bad things about his mother. Even there are thing you don’t like about her, don’t complaint in front of him. It will make him feel annoyed and angry.

·       The break-up thing.... When he says that you are the one and only girl that he will love.... and there is no evidence about him seeing other girls... stop talking about break... There are many love story in his life... but remember, there will only one he treasure the most...

·       Bob up and down about the pass.... when he do wrong things that you don’t like... especially things that involved with other girls, don’t you always bob the thing up if you already forgive him for that.. He might be do the same thing again, just to make you shut up...

 

* If you love him.....  Always try to tolerate with each other.... Love can’t present in single situation. There must be a double sided interaction for a love to growth... so give and take... 

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